When you should not write him to him

Do I write or not to him that I write to him? This question sounds several times in the head of any woman when newly they begin a relation. We have two cases: those who send 400 text messages per day to his boy to know in what it walks, so do not bear the curiosity and the anxiety for speaking with him.

And we have everything opposite: those who never write for fear of staying like “bores“ or because they always wait that other of the first step, with the known risk of which also they can stay like disinterested and cutting.

You know already to what group you belong, but be which be your attitude, of course in more than one occasion you have doubted if to take the cell phone and to call it, or if it was better to hope that he should do it earlier. Today I come to clarify a little the panorama to you and advise you, before the doubt, not to write to him in the following situations:

At once after the first appointments. He can be a tempter to write to your boy that you have happened brilliantly next to you and that you have liked to know it, but he waits a little more. The men enjoy the stage of the conquest and, if you write to him too much when newly they are known, it diminishes his emotion for conquering you, since he will feel that it already has you for him.

When you are intoxicated. To drink alcohol with a cell phone within reach of the hand is a real danger. With the alcohol us deshinibimos too much and perhaps say to him something that you him should not have said. He avoids future repentances and awkward situations and keeps your phone when you drink. Or straight he avoids the alcohol …

When you have already written to him. It is very good that you write to your boy, since in a couple there must not be missing the communication and the demonstration of interest of both parts. Nevertheless, do not abuse the text messages: the men do not like for anything that they "press" them. And there yes insurance you will stay like a bore for him …

When you are very angry. Of course have the whole suppressed anger and you die of desire of reproaching him: Why have not you called me today?! But that does not do any more that to demonstrate your insecurity. Also, if you find a problem the best thing is to speak it face to face and not across a message, which it is possible to interpret of different way.

When you are trying to be graceful. If they are not known too much, it is better that you keep some comments. Perhaps your best intention is to surprise it and to make it laugh, but he remembers what I said to you in the previous step: the message can be comprised of the form opposite to the one that you were recounting to yourself and there we will be before an understood evil.